Why our story matters is because we live our lives based upon our stories, which act as a filter to determine how we solve all of our problems and how we respond to everything. Our beliefs are 95% responsible for how we feel think and act, that's a significant influence wouldn't you say! and all of that is going on subconsciously which means that we arn't even aware of what our beliefs are largely.
Whilst we shouldn't have to apologize for our belief systems, it will always be up to us to take responsibility for them, whether we like it or not. We build our society based on our stories and we also build the world and choose our relationships based on them too. Our esteem, worth and value are all based on our self beliefs and what we have accepted to be true. Even the way we heal our bodies are founded on a belief system, which is on top for a lot of us at the moment with the vaccination roll out and the different responses about having it or not.
Im not here to say one way is wrong or right, it's just that who we think we are and our story are simply fundamental. Science now knows this, and it's not too hard to find information about this anymore, it's all over the net. I don't know of anything more exciting than learning information that can help me self regulate to live a more joy filled and peaceful life. Us humans are the only form of life, that we currently know about, that can choose our emotions and thoughts on demand!. Some emotions are regenerative and others degenerative and once we become aware of the difference then we have a lot more control in our lives.
I run regular workshops or work one to one with people to introduce people to thinking a little differently about their own story when destructive patterns have been identified. I coach people to move past the parts of their story where they often find themselves stuck in a feedback loop. However there is always a disclaimer, if successful then there needs to be an open ness to expect the unexpected. Einstein once said "we can not solve a problem with the same mind that created it" How true that is.
Im no longer waiting for others or life to change, Im too busy experimenting with creating a life I want.
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